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Gouache illustration of a child's bicycle with training wheels standing alone on warm pale ground, its shadow stretching to one side, for Carol Dweck's mindset and the grade of not yet

Mindset: Carol Dweck, My Perfectionism, and the Grade of Not Yet

Carol Dweck's Mindset found me when I was deep into building Golden Pines and quietly wondering whether I was the kind of person who could build it at all…

Personal Growth·Oct 01, 2026
Gouache illustration of two hands kneading bread dough on a floured surface, sleeves pushed back, warm kitchen light from a window, the home economics everyone called soft

Home Economics: The Subject Everyone Called Soft

Mama taught Home Ec for decades in Catbalogan, and I filed it away as a quaint fact about her. It took a career in senior care to work out that she had been…

Personal Stories·Sep 27, 2026
Pen-and-ink drawing of a spiral stairwell seen looking upward from below, for the 7 habits book I keep growing back into

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: The Book I Keep Growing Back Into

I first read Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People at twenty-five, as a young Financial Adviser who thought he was learning sales technique…

Personal Growth·Sep 24, 2026
Pen-and-ink illustration of a worn nylon-string guitar leaning against a woven rattan chair beside an open window at dusk, for the first song I ever learned

Line to Heaven: The First Song I Ever Learned, and What It Turned Out to Mean

My cousin Myla taught me three chords and a Filipino song from 1993. I had no idea it was written by a man who had just lost both his parents, or that I would…

Personal Stories·Sep 20, 2026
Gouache illustration of a heavy dark wool coat hanging on a wall hook, a second hook beside it empty, for Viktor Frankl and the last of the human freedoms

Man's Search for Meaning: Viktor Frankl and the Last of the Human Freedoms

Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning is usually shelved with the self-help books, and it never quite belongs there. it was dictated in about nine days by…

Personal Growth·Sep 17, 2026
Gouache illustration of a house key turning in a front door lock, close up, for a guide to paying for assisted living in Michigan

How to Pay for Assisted Living in Michigan (Without Going Broke)

Families sit across from me and ask the same question first: won't Medicaid cover this? The honest answer is complicated, and no one tells them the truth…

Senior Living·Sep 13, 2026
Still-life photograph of the first snow lying in a thin even line along a weathered wooden porch rail on a grey morning, for Warren Buffett and the art of sitting still

The Snowball: Warren Buffett and the Art of Sitting Still

The third book in my series, and I planned it this way from the start. After two studies in intensity. Jobs and his focus, Musk and his fire. I wanted the…

Personal Growth·Sep 10, 2026
Pop-surrealism illustration of an empty New York school corridor lined with deep navy lockers, a single paper airplane held motionless in a shaft of amber afternoon light, for a news roundup on the city pausing generative AI for 600,000 students

Roundup: New York Took the AI Away From 600,000 Kids

New York pulled generative AI from 600,000 students through eighth grade. The only sector that lost jobs in August was the one building the machines. And a…

Senior Living·Sep 08, 2026
Vintage archival photograph of a wooden library card-catalog wall, several drawers pulled part-way open with handwritten index cards standing above them in late afternoon light, for when the number everyone quotes and the document disagree

Roundup: When the Number Everyone Quotes and the Document Disagree

Nvidia's China quarter says the opposite of what the selloff said. Brussels turned the chatbot rules on while the coverage said it turned them off. Twenty AI…

Technology·Sep 04, 2026